For many people, the experience with their earthly parents is not a positive nurturing exchange as designed. Many children spend their adult lives seeking healing for wounds inflicted on them by the ones who were created to provide and protect. If they do not seek healing, they cover up the wounds with various band aids pretending to be fine. Meanwhile blood is seeping through the band aids into every other area of their life.
Several months ago I wrote a post that address our Heavenly Father being a father to the fatherless. If you would like to read it you can click on A Father's Love. There have been many times I have heard others refer to our Heavenly Father as being a Father to those who were abandoned or felt unloved by their fathers.
However, our heavenly Father is not just a Father to the fatherless, He is a Mother to the motherless.
Can a woman forget her nursing child,
And not have compassion on the [daughter] of her womb?
Surely they may forget, Yet I will not forget you.
See, I have inscribed you on the palms of My hands. Isaiah 49:15-16
In our culture today, it is not uncommon for mothers to be distant, negligent, detached, or abusive. My heart aches over it. God's heart aches as well.
God designed woman with a heart of a mother, or a nurturing instinct.
Even women without natural children have a mother's heart. Many women believe only natural mothers have a mother's heart. That is not the case. God created Eve and called her "the mother of all living" before she ever gave birth. God designs all women with a mother's heart. God calls us to use our hearts to nurture those He has placed in our care. We are all God's children, so every single person we come into contact with is a child.
When a woman suppresses or denies herself of her mother's heart she ultimately abandons her purpose.
Perhaps your mother neglected you, or physically or emotionally abused you. Perhaps your mother did not care for you as a mother should. She abandoned her mother's heart for one reason or another. However, it does not mean you are abandoned.
You have One who loves you unconditionally. God says to those who have been left and forgotten,
"Surely they may forget, YET I WILL NOT FORGET YOU."
May those words sink down deep to fill the crevices of neglect.
May those words be healing ointment in the wounds inflicted by the ammunition of abandonment.
Let Him be the Mother of your longing. Allow Him to cradle you as He rocks you in His loving arms and dries years of tears. He compassion never fails.
Seek healing from the only One who can heal. Run to Him and let Him bandage your wounds so the healing power in His blood will seep through into every area of your life.
He is a Mother to the motherless and He has not forgotten you. You are written on the palms of His hands.